Unfaithful Wife

August 17, 2009

3 Failsafe Ways to Catch a Cheating Spouse

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You’re confident that your partner is cheating. But how do you know? You’re able to sense that they’re acting differently but you just can not put your finger on it. Something just doesn’t feel right and your instinct tells you that something has changed but yet you still have a doubt as everything seems to be normal on the surface but your suspicion is alerting you that all is not what it appears. Maybe you don’t want to know the truth, maybe you’re afraid of what you might find out, or maybe you’re just imagining it but yet there’s still that strange feeling when you get that kiss goodbye in the morning that you don’t know what your spouse is up to for the rest of the day.

The 3 A’s is a surefire way to know if you have a cheating spouse and can help you to come to terms with the fact that you have an issue to be dealt with and you can make the decision that you need to take control of the situation and get answers. You can be assured that even if your spouse is a pathological liar they will still exhibit these tell tale signs that they are up to no good.

1. Appearance.

When your spouse all of a sudden changes their appearance and takes a lot more effort in how they look this can often be the first signal to you that something has changed. The logic being this is simple, when a person is about to start or has began an affair then just like many birds they would like to display their best plumage. They have a new found confidence and they conceive that every member of the opposite sex finds them attractive so they must put on their best show. A new interest in fashion, like changing one’s wardrobe or new found interest in beauty treatments or getting a new hairstyle can be a cheating spouse’s first giveaway sign that their mental pattern has shifted.

2. Attention.

When you find that your partner is making more effort to be attentive and you feel overwhelmed with their sudden alteration of libido then this can be another indication that things are not what they appear to be. You may have thought the opposite but no! A cheating spouse is a clever little creature and their increased libido serves two purposes. One it’s a reaction to the fact that they are likely to be have more stimulating sex elsewhere and therefore their libido goes haywire and they’ve to expel it somewhere. But, another reason is to throw you off the sent. By being very romantic with you they think that you wont suspect, or would like to suspect that they have anything illicit to hide. So beware of sudden changes in the way they act like bunches of flowers out of the blue, and if you find yourself getting down and dirty on the kitchen table then not only should the microwave have alarm bells ringing.

3. Aggressiveness.

This seems to contradict number 2 but it goes hand in hand with it really. Because, at this stage you know that something is different as you are now with a very romantic, well dressed, sweet smelling person who is always smiling so you decide to question this transformation. This is when the cheating spouse becomes aggressive in their own defense. They will become more aggressive than normal and will fly off the handle when you challenge them about the receipt for champagne that you found when you were accidentally looking in their jacket pocket. The aggression can be the greatest epic drama you’ll encounter or in it’s worse case turn violent. The aggression is just another way to try and confuse you and make you wonder whether or not you’re going mad.

So if your partner displays the 3 A’s then you’ll be able to be confident that the time has come to get the answers that you’re entitled to and call their bluff once and for all, and that’s why there a total industry devoted to catching cheating spouses.



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