I am not looking for man bashing here.
I want to know what situations set a man up for an affair?

I know in most cases, a guy doesnt go to work, see a hot babe and drop his pants. In most situations, a friendship or relationship developes first, the man ponders the pros and cons and sometimes ends up in an affair.

is it because he feels disrepsected by his wife? is he bored? is it a mid life crisis?

thank you for sharing.