How to catch a cheating husband? – The key is to know what to look for. Do you see a change in your husband’s personal behavior or maybe he acts nervous or different around his computer or cell phone. If your husband is cheating his likely to use his computer or cell phone to communicate with the other woman. This could be where you find your evidence to catch him cheating.
Personal behavior – Watch your husband and pay close attention to what he says and does. Be alert to what he is doing that is usually not his norm, does he work late when he never used to. Does he all of a sudden have a boys night out every Friday.
Document everything! You will forget details if you do not write them down. Keep it in a safe place and write down time and dates when suspicious incidence occurs, it could be suspicious phone calls, meetings, bad excuses for things, lies. By writing things down you can see if there occurs a pattern in his behavior. Does he walk the dog every Thursday at 8.00 and during that time it shows up suspicious phone calls on the phone bill? Does he fix his hair and smell awfully good for going to the gym?
When you are doing your investigation be discrete, but get as much facts as you can. You do not want to ruin a marriage on false accusations. And if you ask him about it, but do not have the evidence, he is most likely going to deny everything. Collect as much fact as you can.
If you feel like you can not wait and need an answer this week. Tell your husband that you have a meeting or that you are going to a movie and dinner with a friend, let him know that you will be gone for at least 3-4 hours. Then you drive away, be gone for an hour and two and then decide to come home early. Hopefully you will just find your husband watching TV…
Cell phone behavior – Check the phone bill to see if there occurs any suspicious numbers. When they are made and for how long they have talked. Is he calling somebody at the same time everyday, maybe right before he comes home? Have you found a suspicious phone number, use a reverse phone lock up to find out who your husband is talking to?
Computer behavior – Start checking the internet history on your computer when your husband is not around. If the history is cleared he obvious has something to hide. If not go through the sites he has been visiting. If he is communicating through e-mail, he might have set up an e-mail account that he is hiding.
The best way to find out EVERYTHING he is doing on the computer is to get a spy ware. You will be able to see every incoming/outgoing e-mail, every site he has been visiting… You will get all the proof you need.
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