I have three guy friends who, on separate occasions, told me bluntly that even ‘faithful’ husbands give in to one-night-stands if given the opportunity (when out with friends, wife is out-of-town, he is on some business trip, etc). “If the girl is physically attractive, why not?” When I told them that it may not be the same for some guys, they say that it might be possible but it would be a rare find. So.. I’m now asking to you internet guys. Is this really true? will men ever be faithful at ALL times? completely faithful?
yes, a man can b faithful if he’s a GOD.
Comment by Anonymous — October 29, 2009 @ 3:54 am
It kind of depends on how old these ‘guys’ are.. They sound immature and it really just depends on how mature the man is.. how honest he is.. and how dedicated he is.. A lot of men cheat.. but a lot of woman cheat to.. Marriage is Hard. Trust me.. but you get what you put into a marriage..
Comment by Anonymous — October 30, 2009 @ 3:09 am
Of course men will be faithful. Any guy who is so eager to jump ship doesn’t have his heart fully into his marriage anyway. It’s not a game. You’ve got to commit to it and work on it everyday. These friends of yours obviously aren’t as committed as they should be.
Comment by Anonymous — October 31, 2009 @ 1:49 am
It depends on the man. And it depends on the woman because a woman can do the same thing. Keep in mind that it isn’t about the sex it’s all about the person being selfish. They don’t care who they hurt because everything is all about what they want.
Comment by Anonymous — November 1, 2009 @ 3:35 pm
Well am not a guy but i could tell you that men could be dogs. But there are those that are good, and those that are unfaithful
Comment by Anonymous — November 3, 2009 @ 4:15 pm
it’s in a mans nature to cheat, we have the same nature of a lion to mate with everything we see, every man has done it so believe the hype when a man say he hasnt, we as men use the 5 F rules and be done with it, women do it to so its all good they have just perfected their game.
Comment by Anonymous — November 7, 2009 @ 1:52 am
They might just trying to get you to be the girl that they are unfaithful with. I don’t think men are much different then women on this. Women would jump at the opportunities to become unfaithful just as much as men.
Comment by Anonymous — November 8, 2009 @ 1:26 am
No all men do not cheat – otherwise we would be saying all women are doormats since women are in relationships with men…
Comment by Anonymous — November 8, 2009 @ 6:12 pm
I’ve been married 22 years and have been tempted but I’ve always been faithful. I know plenty of other men who would never cheat on their wives.
Men that cheat and jump into bed at the first opportunity are either immature or selfish. There are plenty of loyal men out there and I hope you pick the right one.
Comment by Anonymous — November 9, 2009 @ 6:10 am
I know that there are some men who have always been faithful to their wives. I have no idea about the ratio of faithful to unfaithful, but there absolutely are some in the faithful category.
Comment by Anonymous — November 11, 2009 @ 3:54 am
Sounds like you’ve got some real nice guys in your life. My advice would start hanging out with different people. By the way you might want to understand that your 3 guy “friends” are trying to let you know that they would be unfaithful with you, if you would give them the opportunity.
Guys don’t have female friends. We have female relatives, female co-workers, female acquaintances, female partners of our male friends and females that we aren’t sleeping with at this time. We do not have female friends period.
Comment by Anonymous — November 11, 2009 @ 11:34 am
Sorry but I think it’s true – they can’t be faithful
Harriet
Comment by Anonymous — November 14, 2009 @ 10:50 pm
My friends all have college degrees/law degress etc and are in their 40’s like me. They all earn 200K and up. And out of 8 of them, 6 never cheat no matter what and 2 cheat whenever they can. The 6 that don’t:
- Really love their wives
- Their wives treat them great sexually and make them a priority
- Don’t want to divide LOTS of money in half in a divorce
The other 2: One of them his wife is not that into him sexually. And the other just like variety.
Comment by Anonymous — November 16, 2009 @ 8:06 am