Comments on: Is it fair that my wife won’t let me have female friends?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 09:47:51 +0000

Divorce her!

She deserves far better than you…

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:10:50 +0000

i reckon you’re in an abusive relationship in a way that your wife is controlling your social needs and freedom as well.

talk to her in a diplomatic manner and tell her that what she has said is really affecting you that you have to consult to anonymous third party computer bums for help.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:55:06 +0000

Unfair.

Woman who usually have issues with there significant additional having the opposite sex as friends usually are really insecure.

Relationships are a 50/50 business not a 80/20 business.

With that being said Too hell with her rules on your friends. What if the tables were turned how would she feel ?

As long as you don’t cheat, Delight in female friendship despite her objections.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:08:16 +0000

Ooh . . . that’s a toughie. You said that she isn’t willing to chat about it indicating that you have tried to chat about this matter. She isn’t willing to chat about it maybe because of dread of your reaction and/or her own conflicting feelings.

the situation begs the questions: do you both know, have met, have socialized with each others’ friends? Or is she unwilling to do that . . . are you?

Personally, I like having platonic friendships with members of the opposite sex–gives me a different perspective on things and has been healthful for me . . . for the most part.

I don’t know if this helps . . . but maybe it’s something to reckon about.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 22:50:52 +0000

im also with her

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 14:01:02 +0000

Is it female friends in general or just this one friend? Maybe she has reason to feel threatened.Is she a jealous person otherwise?Does your oldest friend have a partner she likes to bits? Do you have a excellent male friend you can talk to about it.?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 11:19:14 +0000

Heres the business- My husband had a female friend he would talk to online all the time, and i didnt like it, and eventually, she started coming between us and our marriage because of a lot of things between the two of them, so I told him any you get rid of her or you can say goodbye to me. And he got rid of her- and i know he did, I still make sure of it.

But look- Married couples need to learn something- because obviously they dont get it these days. When a man and woman walk down the aisle, they need to respect the others wishes (if they are not cruel and abusive and evil and ill-treat) and they need to respect the others feelings- including you and your wife. See, having additional women in your life is really disrespectful to your wife- in every possible way. If she is married to you she deserves ALL of you- she she cant have all of you of your off with additional “girl friends”. It cant work- and a married couple having friends of the opposite sex never works and will always end in disaster.

And your wife needs to practice what she preaches and stop having male friends and focus only on YOU and her FEMALE friends. Its not right for her to say that you cant have any female friends yet shes got a bunch of male- and you NEED to point that out to her. You two need to learn how to respect eachother and respect the sanctity of your marriage. My husband and I are each others only friends- and were really pleased that way. We dont associate with additional people, were content being with each additional all day every day, and enjoying each others company. Im so glad i had him get rid of that girl- because he would say he had no feelings for her, but it turned out, after a while he started developing some for her, so i nipped it in the bud before it could maybe get worse, and now, months later with no contact (again, i have proof), we are much better off, much more pleased with each additional, and have grown closer. No additional woman or man in a marriage is ever a excellent business- and will always bite you in the @$$.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 19:37:55 +0000

i would tell her to grow up. if she has male friends and u have never cheated you can have female friends. communicate with your friends. if she can’t accept u for who u are then screw her.life is too small.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 06:29:50 +0000

Man-up!
If she has male friends then you get out there and get female friends end of tale…
If she makes rules that she dont want to obey herself then tough lol.

I have female friends and my ex gf had male friends. I did not hide them from her but she hid hers from me and I left her lol!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 02:18:16 +0000

Any accept it or go on She any doesn’t entrust you or is just way overly jealous. The covetousness could take a really long time to get over.

Be careful- She might not want you to have girl friends because she might have some intentions OR feelings towards her friends, and she’s worried that you may too.

But, I could be ill-treat.

Oh- Just tell her if YOU can’t have friends of the opposite sex, she can’t any. Unadorned and honest.