Is it normal that a maid becomes the illicit 2nd “wife” or the male servant has secret sexual deeds as a “2nd hubby”, in this part of the world, yet both live on pretext of assumed innocence! Would you be unfaithful to your spouse? honest ans 10 points now!!

I need answers from a guy’s point of view. I have been with the same lady ever since I was 15 and now I am 29 and I have 3 beautiful kids with my wife. I love her dearly and I could never do anything that would jeopardize our marriage or risk hurting her. Can you men tell me why it happens?