Sign of a Cheating Spouse: the Plastic Does not Lie
While they may not be one hundred percent full proof means of detection, most of us are familiar with the telltale cryptogram of cheating spouse. They can array from longer work hours which occur with alarming frequency, unexplained and sudden changes in habits and corporal appearance or a sudden shift in the dynamics of your relationship including a noticeable lack of communication or more arguments which seem to manifest out of nowhere.
A cheating spouse can exhibit all of these symptoms or none of them depending on how careful they are playing it. No one is perfect but since it takes a large point of ingenuity to carry on an extramarital affair, catching them can be hard.
Yet there is one sign that all too often gets overlooked when discussing a cheating spouse. And that is, it takes money to carry on an extramarital affair.
Ruth Houston an Faithlessness practiced who has appeared on the Today Show, CNN, Fox News, and in countless newspapers around the country describes it this way, “If a man is caught up in an extramarital affair, sooner or later it will be reflected in the family finances. A cheating husband will resort to financial faithlessness so he can cover up the fact that he’s spending money on his mistress. Affairs cost money.”
That of course also applies to any woman that is cheating on her husband but the point is clear. The spouse and the additional person may delight in the corporal intimacy and in the commencement that maybe all that is required but eventually romance without finance will bring any relationship (particularly an extramarital one) to an end.
So what can you watch for? In this day and age it will probably come down to the credit card statement.
We live in a society where having credit has become an absolute necessity. In many instances credit is more widely acceptable then having the actual cash to pay for it. Therefore when the billing statement arrives from Visa, MasterCard, Amex or whoever, give it a thorough review. See if there’s anything on there that is unexplained. If you are in charge of the family finances so much the better. You can easily question your spouse about certain charges without arousing their suspicions since paying the bills is your responsibility. If it’s not your job start checking it out anyway. When it comes to household finances both parties should be caught up in some capacity or another. Leaving it all to one person, mainly if that person is doing the cheating, is just asking to be left in the dark.
If you do see something you can always confront your partner straight away but sometimes it’s better to wait and see if this is a pattern. Having an “Aha!” moment at the first sign of a suspicious charge can do more harm than excellent particularly if your significant additional has a reasonable explanation. If they do than your lack of entrust has been exposed, which can lead to all sorts of complications.
Finances are one of the foundations in any relationship. You can only go so far on like and wishful thinking. That includes marital faithlessness. It not only requires time and energy but capital. We live in a credit based world so if you have your doubts in regards to your spouse’s faithfulness than start checking those credit card statements. It may not be a full proof system but it can go a long way in confirming your suspicions.
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